I'm getting so freakin old it's sad... but anyways, so a friend of mine wants to hook me up with this chick. She's really cute, but she is 34. I'm 27, so that's 7 years.
I mean, when I am 32 she will be pushing 40! And when I'm 32 I hope to be dating 24 year old chicks. On the one hand, she's mature and it would be nice to have someone to talk to without feeling like you're around a little girl who wants to know how fast your car goes and can it beat a Mustang, but on the other hand, dude, she's 34!
So what about you guys? Do you date chicks older than you? or only your age? Or only younger? I'd like to be with a 23-25 year old I think... but this one is pretty cute. yea yeah I know, "you don't have to marry her to sample the poon" but I'm not looking just to score.
all depends how low the tits sag, LOL. J/K ive no fukin clue, good luck though.
from the sound of it though youre whinning for nothing. damn mike, man up and get busy, 34 is not old at all. quit looking 10 yrs ahead, enjoy it for the now.
Chicks that age are more interesting than 23-25 year olds. Also, remember the old "they are reaching their sexual peak" assumption.
With that said, also watch out for the "I wanna get married at that age" assumption too.
I use the word assumption for stereotype so your results may vary.
jeff
Dude, we think EXACTLY alike!
Pro: 34 = sexual peak
Con: 34 = "must have kids now"
Con: 34 = "must get married now"
Pro: 34 = experienced and horny!
Pro: 34 = not afraid to get freaky!
Con: 34 = Not too many years of hotness left
Pro: 34 = good job, so I wouldn't be paying for EVERYTHING all the time
Con: 34 = possibly not as young and stupid as me
I say go for it. It's just a hook-up. Your over thinking this a lil bit dont you think??
I'm afraid we will hit it off and then I'll end up having to ditch her and feel baed about it. And at 34 she's maybe looking to score a hubby or father and I ain't looking to be either anytime soon
Chicks that age are more interesting than 23-25 year olds. Also, remember the old "they are reaching their sexual peak" assumption.
With that said, also watch out for the "I wanna get married at that age" assumption too.
I use the word assumption for stereotype so your results may vary.
jeff
Dude, we think EXACTLY alike!
Pro: 34 = sexual peak
Con: 34 = "must have kids now"
Con: 34 = "must get married now"
Pro: 34 = experienced and horny!
Pro: 34 = not afraid to get freaky!
Con: 34 = Not too many years of hotness left
Pro: 34 = good job, so I wouldn't be paying for EVERYTHING all the time
Con: 34 = possibly not as young and stupid as me
That's 4 for and 4 against.
Pro: 34 = "more interesting" that's 5 and your decision is made.
Aw shit, I forgot "more likely to be divorced w/ kids".
It's a toss up again unless you can rule that out.
yeah, but older chicks know the game better, she probably wont be as heartbroken. I say hit it, if u like it, stay with her. If you dont, leave. But just know this, she will get old and wrinkly before you do. that is all. [img]/images/graemlins/laughing.gif[/img]
Think about education level, job security, maturity, has already knows what she wants.
Look at Ldy Night she is 41, stays in shape (does PT daily), very well educated, masters degree. Has a nice figure. She can get a job in any city, because she is a nurse. Very loyal. And the best part is she is single.
That could happen, or you could fall head over heels and be on your knees (insert sexually explicit thought here) popping the question.
I'm 29. Dated a 33 year old for 3 years. Yes, most women like Jeff pointed out around this age definately have kids and settling down on the brain. And that is great too; afterall, our purpose on this earth is to reproduce. It also indicates to me that the woman might have her shit together and want to build something long term with someone. So a woman of this age is a GOOD thing.
Now, I am dating 24 year old hottie, and I feel like a 18 year old. VIAGRAwho? [img]/images/graemlins/laughing.gif[/img]
Make no mistake this is cool, but it cannot sustain a healthy relationship. Thing about a 24 year old is that their maturity level is pretty well maxed out, they are ready to do more new things like travel, buy homes, experiment etc...AND if YOU are not ready for kids, you can buy yourself at least 5 years before kids might come up.
It all comes down to what YOU are seeking.
a) Ride the wave, relive University, fewer "serious" talks, a just "kick it" attitude would be the 24 year old.
b) Discussing mortgage rates, looking at art, discussing children, marriage, discussing children, building baby rooms, and asking yourself where your youth went would be the elderly lady.
Of course this is a HUGE generalization, and there are exceptions. But don't pass up a shot to date a hottie. Woman have a way of hypnotising us, she might just do it to you. [img]/images/graemlins/laughing.gif[/img]
That could happen, or you could fall head over heels and be on your knees (insert sexually explicit thought here) popping the question.
I'm 29. Dated a 33 year old for 3 years. Yes, most women like Jeff pointed out around this age definately have kids and settling down on the brain. And that is great too; afterall, our purpose on this earth is to reproduce. It also indicates to me that the woman might have her shit together and want to build something long term with someone. So a woman of this age is a GOOD thing.
Now, I am dating 24 year old hottie, and I feel like a 18 year old. VIAGRAwho? [img]/images/graemlins/laughing.gif[/img]
Make no mistake this is cool, but it cannot sustain a healthy relationship. Thing about a 24 year old is that their maturity level is pretty well maxed out, they are ready to do more new things like travel, buy homes, experiment etc...AND if YOU are not ready for kids, you can buy yourself at least 5 years before kids might come up.
It all comes down to what YOU are seeking.
a) Ride the wave, relive University, fewer "serious" talks, a just "kick it" attitude would be the 24 year old.
b) Discussing mortgage rates, looking at art, discussing children, marriage, discussing children, building baby rooms, and asking yourself where your youth went would be the elderly lady.
Of course this is a HUGE generalization, and there are exceptions. But don't pass up a shot to date a hottie. Woman have a way of hypnotising us, she might just do it to you. [img]/images/graemlins/laughing.gif[/img]
Go out with her. You don't have to marry her. Or even continue a relationship if you don't want to. You don't even know her all that well yet. Back when I was young and single and liked to mingle, I dated many women older than me as well as many younger than me. I liked the older ones better, but married one 2 years younger than me. Each person is an adventure & it's fun to have many adventures.
Im 22 and I would rather date a girl my age or a little older. I probably wouldnt dating a chic up around 27. And just because she older, doesnt mean shes not hot or wont stay hot. Shit, I live in the MILF state. BC knows what Im talking about. Every older chic around here is already hot, but they pretty much stay hot. I say go for it! :thumb:
I would have thought you were older Mike. The way you are around here, I would think you were an old 70 yr. old man. [img]/images/graemlins/supergrin.gif[/img]
Even though you can be a stern old man sometimes, your still cool. [img]/images/graemlins/headbang.gif[/img]
Just to date a few times I guess I might consider a slightly older woman, but I go for the younger ones myself. My current girlfriend is 11 years younger than me and I like it that way. No ex-husband, no kids, no wrinkles, no sagging, no baggage, no problem.
I say go for it. It's just a hook-up. Your over thinking this a lil bit dont you think??
I'm afraid we will hit it off and then I'll end up having to ditch her and feel baed about it.
OMG, you are so full of yourself. Jeeze, even I'M not that conceited. She's 7 years older than you and you think she would ever expect you to stick around, let alone marry her? You're nothing but a boy-toy to her. She's either buying the press-clippings of Madonna and Demi or she's just after a piece of ass. My bet's on the latter.
If I was a boy toy, fine, but come on - she is 34... you are old too Chuck and hence confined to old chicks. You know what they will want... "so how serious about 'us' are you anyways????".
I told my buddy I would go out with him and his GF and me and this chick, but if she is even a little clingy, she gets a fake # [img]/images/graemlins/laughing.gif[/img]
Im 22 and I would rather date a girl my age or a little older. I probably wouldnt dating a chic up around 27. And just because she older, doesnt mean shes not hot or wont stay hot. Shit, I live in the MILF state. BC knows what Im talking about. Every older chic around here is already hot, but they pretty much stay hot. I say go for it! :thumb:
I would have thought you were older Mike. The way you are around here, I would think you were an old 70 yr. old man. [img]/images/graemlins/supergrin.gif[/img]
Even though you can be a stern old man sometimes, your still cool. [img]/images/graemlins/headbang.gif[/img]
