This thread is fascinating. I just keep waiting for Dr. Phil or Oprah to throw a post up here. This thread is getting intense. :thumb:
All this stripper talk makes me want to get another one! [img]/images/graemlins/laughing.gif[/img]
Z06, takes big balls to say it like it is. I think Lawboy is bang on here about the "I love you" lines. Ask yourself the same question. If you jetted off for a 10 day romp, and were going to meet up with friends but come home early and started saying I love you to the local chick, why would you do this? Perhaps she was dissapointed with the other guy, and is retreating to familiar and secure territory (this would be you).
You seem like a really nice guy...hope it works out for you. :thumb: Keep us posted.
Story like this deserves 5 shades as far as I am concerned, consider it done
Are you ready for this? The answer to the smell test was OCEAN WATER. Muhahaha I wouldn't have thought of that. Well, at least I know now, and can move forward accordingly. Trust, no there isn't any. Seems like things should settle back to normal now, there will be no feelings.
Austin thanks, I do date normal girls, I just keep going back to her. Someone once told me the unattainable is inavaribly attractive.
No problem! :thumb: I dont have ANY experience with dating strippers like everyone else here [img]/images/graemlins/supergrin.gif[/img], but, like MHQC said, you seem like a nice guy, you dont need games played on you by some chic that probably doesnt even know what she wants. I hope all works out for you though. :thumb:
Dust: i would never base anything on smell. the thing that made me suspicious was the fact she wanted to take a shower. however, that doesnt always mean she has been up to something. for instance, when its just me and her she doesnt demand to take a shower but if another girl is coming over, she definitely takes a shower and gets all fixed up....she explains it as she will be damned if that other girl looks or smells better! lol!
glad to hear everything has settled down. good luck.
dude i have no fucking idea. you need to figure out what you want out of this relationship and make the necessary plans. if its just sex...then who cares, wear a condom and score one for the team. if its a serious relationship or feelings, then you need to decide if you can trust her. if you can, then jump out there and give it a go. if she fucks you over, at least you gave it your best try and went with your heart. if you cant trust her, then walk away now. having serious feelings for a girl you cant trust is only gonna end up bad. with a lot of hard experiences, drama, and wasted time and energy. you control this. decide what you want and do it.
Hey,know how you feel....got burned,once.......go check out www.askmen.com and go to {dating and love}section,then to {doc love}.....click on one of the articles,then scroll down until article list on right side,then to the one that says 'she already has a boyfriend' and 'having two girlfriends'
Beyond that,good dating advice.
I sit here listening to "I am the Highway" by Audioslave, typing and thinking you guys are cheaper than a shrink, sometimes it just feels good to vent.....what a trip?
And that song (along with several others by Audioslave) is now on Viper Radio. Some nice tunes on there, even the Zappa one is pretty funny if not referenced back to this thread (and not intentional, I assure you). Sorry for the slight hijack of an otherwise fascinating thread. Some of us old married farts can't remember how to deal with single women. [img]/images/graemlins/freak3.gif[/img] Good luck!
Just like Lawboy said..we needed a heart to heart to stop playing games. Things are incredible, shes cooking for me, offers to do laundry, and she is the person I have the most fun with when going out. She has begun to meet my friends and vice versa.......it's gone about as good as it can at this point.
and her and I have a Miami trip planned.....guess I'll just ride the wave
Z06, if you aren't in it for just the sex - you need to get out. From reading your email it sounds to me as if you are not in the right mode to date a stripper... rule number one... strippers are for sex only, only a fool would fall in love. You gotta play the card for what it's worth.
I hear ya...believe me when I say I've dated alot of strippers, practically all my life.....it has, for the most part, always been fun as long as it wasn't serious. I've decided to pretend and see where it goes. After-all, I don't have a problem seeing just her, I actually prefer it....and more stripper friends are coming over and they are happy for us. I'll let her throw down some more cards, and see where she takes us, if in fact it is farther than the bedroom.
There is something special about this girl, it's just so weird. I've never been in this situation before, but it does seem like an excellent way to meet a whole lot of girls and when we break up, I'll be in a very nice position to be consoled. I do feel different about her, we'll see. But in the mean time watch me work this into a pseudo-girlfriend relationship with all the benefits......and I mean benefits.
Jason *pretending to be in love for a while because it feels good and maybe I'm bored*
and her and I have a Miami trip planned.....guess I'll just ride the wave
Sounds good - how did she get the Miami boyfriend to pay for you and her to go??
HAHA...I know right. I asked her about that, and I saw her confirmation where the ticket was on her credit card. That dosen't necessarily mean anything, but it is better than on his. Anthony, you'll meet her pretty soon, and you can give me your impression....or better yet get her to dance for you and see what she tells you. Now thats an idea, a spy.
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