Sorry to hear that. I hope things get better soon. It's always sad when kids are involved. I hope you guys can work something out that is best for your child.
Nothing said erases the pain of knowing something is coming to an end. On the other hand it is obvious from your previous letter that you had some wonderful times. That is far better than to have never shared those times with her. I believe that in the end everything turns out the way it is supposed to. Whatever that may be. Keep your head up, be the man your child needs, and life will bring to you what is right for you.
Nothing said erases the pain of knowing something is coming to an end. On the other hand it is obvious from your previous letter that you had some wonderful times. That is far better than to have never shared those times with her. I believe that in the end everything turns out the way it is supposed to. Whatever that may be. Keep your head up, be the man your child needs, and life will bring to you what is right for you.
That's not his letter, I posted that to make him laugh, someone else actually made it.
Rocko, I don't know you but I have been going through the same thing now for about a year. We are still together and have a 5 year old. I think from your last post you mentioned she was depressed. This is my situation also. What I have learned is it really has nothing to do with you at all but is a symptom of the depression.
Depressed people do not love themselves so they can not love anyone else. I started my wife on antidepressants and it has really helped but there are a lot of other issues with her.
With a man what you see is what you get but women often hold it in and then explode with anger and this caches us totally off guard, at least this is what happened to me.
She has to want to help herself first but I'm sure she is in denial. It's much easier to use you as the excuse for all her depression.
I know how hard it must be for you now but it definitely will get better.
Rocko, I don't know you but I have been going through the same thing now for about a year. We are still together and have a 5 year old. I think from your last post you mentioned she was depressed. This is my situation also. What I have learned is it really has nothing to do with you at all but is a symptom of the depression.
Depressed people do not love themselves so they can not love anyone else. I started my wife on antidepressants and it has really helped but there are a lot of other issues with her.
With a man what you see is what you get but women often hold it in and then explode with anger and this caches us totally off guard, at least this is what happened to me.
She has to want to help herself first but I'm sure she is in denial. It's much easier to use you as the excuse for all her depression.
I know how hard it must be for you now but it definitely will get better.
Rob
At least your wife took the first step...She got help. Mine won't.
