[redlineviper]

When a girl cheats it real hard for a lot of guys. The thing you need to look at is what is or was her state of mind when she did that. Many people do something like that cause they know something is not right, don't want to break up, yet want to create something to enable an out. With all that physco babble there is a point. She could very well love you very much and not long for another man, rather needed to escape from the hurt and did it in an unconstructive way. Everything gets easier with time. Give eachother some space and things will work out, they always do.