Im sorry to hear about what's going on bro!!! It is really hard to go through. Alot of the members here know what I went through with my EX. When she called it off, I didn't post here anymore and tried to pull my life together. I didn't know what to do with my life anymore because I had lost the girl I loved. Days were not the same. Now a year later, I still can't get over her and think about her every second of the day. I have no shortage of girls whatsoever, Joel can vouche for that
but it is not the same and all and I catch myself saying "She will Come back"
So it is hard especially when you love the person. How are the kids taking it? Is there any hope that you will get back together with her? If so, before the papers are filed, do little things for her to get the "love bug" back with her... rose peddles in the hot tub, full massages, candle light dinners, roses to work..... the list goes on. People really don't understand what that really does to a relationship and how much it helps to keep the romance there. For those that still have the ones they love, cherish every moment that you have with them!!!
If nothing works, then I am sorry, it will be hard.
Just don't be like me, get out there and enjoy life. If you meet someone else don't compare her to your ex wife because it will not get you anywhere, something that I am working on and not doing a good job at. My ex is the one I want to be with, cant change that.
Hell come to Dallas and I'll introduce you to as many as you'd like. I know TONS of women!
P.S. If all fails, we still have the mini "Soup Kitchen" to look forward too with recent post
